Lately, I've been noticing more and more people who just aren't that bright. I know a common thought is that most people are pretty stupid — and I share that thought — but I haven't really been exposed to them that much in my life. In fact, I've made it a point to surround myself with those who are smarter than I am. Now, though, it seems that more "simple" people are crossing my path daily.
Since I was in school, I have hung out with the smart crowd, the nerds who were artists, writers, and thinkers. Having lived in a different country and in many states in the US, I have a broader worldview than many, and I've been attracted to those who can look outside of their little box. Even now, as a business owner, I draw in those who are successful and can teach me to be more successful. I read a lot of non-fiction, I watch intellectual shows, and my brain is full of all kinds of useless knowledge. I guess I just don't understand when others don't challenge themselves and are okay to be simple and just get by in life.
Perhaps it goes to belief systems. As an atheist, I believe that I am only going to be on this planet one time and I need to make the most of that 100 or so years I'm alive. Most of my friends are also atheists or agnostics, so they continue to better themselves for their limited lives. I think it really hit me that there are some not-so-bright folks walking around when an atheist friend recently showed her cards. I thought it was just me being judgmental (I tend to do that), but when another friend had similar issues communicating with this woman, I realized it was really with her. That opened my eyes to see so many people around me who are just going day to day and not questioning anything or even wanting anything real. It's surprising to me.
Another group is those folks who aren't that bright — but they think they are. They come across as trying so hard to be intellectually superior, yet they miss the mark and just look like buffoons. They look down on the simple lot, but the truth is they're among them.
Of course, I realize that simple people are often not unhappy. They are perfectly content to live life as they've constructed it, and I may be in the minority in my frustration on their behalves. I guess it's kind of like "The Matrix": If you knew there was something more to learn, would you? Or would you just continue living in a haze? I'll take the red pill, please.
I like the way you write (and think)! This year I turned the same age that my brother died. Our time is finite, and there are no guarantees that we will live to see tomorrow. As I get older, more than ever I want to challenged, to be provocative, to spend quality time with people who are passionate, and to learn.
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